Things People Do That Cats Hate

Things People Do That Cats Hate

Cat Behaviour

Things People Do That Cats Hate

Cats are independent creatures with unique likes and dislikes. Understanding what annoys them can help you build trust and keep your cat happy and stress-free.

Read time: 6–8 mins
UK guidance

Contents

  1. Rough handling or unwanted touch
  2. Stressful home environments
  3. Food-related frustrations
  4. Ignoring warning signs
  5. FAQs

Rough handling or unwanted touch

Picking up when they don’t want it

Many cats dislike being held, especially by strangers or in busy settings. Let your cat choose when to be close.

Overstimulation from petting

Cats have sensitive areas like the belly and tail base. Watch for flicking tails or flattened ears — they mean “stop now”.

Loud scolding or shouting

Yelling can scare cats and make them hide. Calm voices and positive reinforcement work much better.

Stressful home environments

Cats thrive on predictability. These stressors can make them anxious or withdrawn:

  • Constant loud noises or visitors
  • No safe hiding spots or vertical spaces
  • Sudden changes like moving house or new pets
  • Dirty litter trays or limited litter availability

Food-related frustrations

Inconsistent feeding schedules

Cats feel secure with regular feeding times. Random meals or late dinners can cause stress.

Dirty bowls or stale water

Cats are very sensitive to smells. Keep food and water dishes fresh and clean daily.

Ignoring warning signs

When cats feel ignored, they may act out or become withdrawn. Look for:

  • Changes in appetite or litter habits
  • Overgrooming or hair loss
  • Sudden aggression or hiding

If you notice these signs, consult your vet to rule out medical issues and get behaviour advice.

FAQs

Why does my cat run away when I try to pet them?
They may be overstimulated or prefer space at that moment. Let them approach you instead of forcing interaction.
How can I reduce my cat's stress at home?
Provide hiding spots, vertical climbing areas, and a predictable routine. Feliway diffusers can also help calm some cats.
Should I punish my cat for bad behaviour?
No. Punishment increases fear and stress. Instead, redirect with toys and reward positive behaviour.
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