Things People Do That Cats Hate
- 27 September 2025
- BuyAPet Editorial Team
- All Cats, Cats and Dogs
Things People Do That Cats Hate
Cats are independent creatures with unique likes and dislikes. Understanding what annoys them can help you build trust and keep your cat happy and stress-free.
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Rough handling or unwanted touch
Picking up when they don’t want it
Many cats dislike being held, especially by strangers or in busy settings. Let your cat choose when to be close.
Overstimulation from petting
Cats have sensitive areas like the belly and tail base. Watch for flicking tails or flattened ears — they mean “stop now”.
Loud scolding or shouting
Yelling can scare cats and make them hide. Calm voices and positive reinforcement work much better.
Stressful home environments
Cats thrive on predictability. These stressors can make them anxious or withdrawn:
- Constant loud noises or visitors
- No safe hiding spots or vertical spaces
- Sudden changes like moving house or new pets
- Dirty litter trays or limited litter availability
Food-related frustrations
Inconsistent feeding schedules
Cats feel secure with regular feeding times. Random meals or late dinners can cause stress.
Dirty bowls or stale water
Cats are very sensitive to smells. Keep food and water dishes fresh and clean daily.
Ignoring warning signs
When cats feel ignored, they may act out or become withdrawn. Look for:
- Changes in appetite or litter habits
- Overgrooming or hair loss
- Sudden aggression or hiding
If you notice these signs, consult your vet to rule out medical issues and get behaviour advice.